Questions couples ask
Frequently Asked Questions.
A clear starting point for couples wondering whether online therapy can help, what the consultation is for, and what kind of work Harvey does.
Can Online Couples Therapy work?
Yes. Online Couples Therapy can work well when both partners have privacy, a stable internet connection, and willingness to participate honestly. Zoom sessions also make consistency easier for couples with children, full calendars, or long drives.
What if my spouse is skeptical?
Skepticism is welcome. The consultation is not about pressuring anyone. It is a chance to see whether the issues can be reframed into solvable problems and whether Harvey's direct, practical style feels useful.
What if we've already tried therapy?
Many couples try therapy and still feel stuck because the real pattern was not named or practiced differently. Harvey focuses on the cycle underneath the fight and the behaviors that help couples repair faster.
How long does therapy take?
It depends on the couple, the level of resentment, and how consistently both partners practice outside of sessions. The goal is not to stay in therapy forever. The goal is to build the capacity to communicate, repair, and reconnect.
What happens during the consultation?
The Free 30-Minute Consultation identifies pain points, reframes the issues into more solvable problems, and determines whether working together is the right fit.
Do you take insurance?
No. Harvey is private pay only.
What are your fees?
Sessions are 60 minutes and cost $185.
Can love come back?
For many couples, love is buried beneath pain, misunderstanding, resentment, and destructive patterns. When the obstacles to love are removed, warmth and affinity can begin to show up again.
What does "the pattern is the enemy" mean?
It means the recurring cycle is the target of the work. When couples team up against the pattern instead of attacking each other, they can find more compassion and better solutions.
What is a hidden request?
A hidden request is the need underneath a complaint. "You never listen" might mean "Please slow down and show me I matter." "You always pull away" might mean "Please stay emotionally present with me."
Have a question that is not listed?
Bring it to the Free 30-Minute Consultation. The first step is simply getting clear about what is happening and whether Harvey's approach fits.